I was watching a show on PBS about ancient chariots. There were three people working together with their expertise trying to recreate the chariots that the Egyptians made for battle back in Bible times. They did fairly well at first but the problem lay in the harnesses for the horses pulling the chariot. I was thinking how "in time" those horses must be in order to successfully pull that chariot - especially in the area of a battle. Boy, isn't that like marriage? It can be tough working in a harness together. I'm the brown horse; he's the black. I mean everything is totally opposite for us - can it get any harder? LOL! Yet, it was crucial that those horses pull together. It was life and death crucial. If those horses didn't work together, the rider would most likely be dead in a very short time. And if we don't work together in our marriages, our marriages could suffer sudden death. Child rearing is an...